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Infidelity,..... unfaithful, ......words which most monogomous couples live in fear of. Educate yourself on this concept by watching renowned researcher and therapist Esther Perel give her TED talk
|Posted on 22 October, 2017 at 21:05||comments (1)|
Traditionally male sexuality has been wrapped up neatly into two boxes. Heterosexually orientated or homosexually orientated. Generally, society has not afforded acceptance of fluidity as it has for woman. Infact, bi sexual encounters for woman is often encouraged. So why doesn't this apply for men?
Recently I have been aware of an increasing amount of men who wish to explore same sex interactions. Fear of judgement and loss of relationships make them go into a secret world of the...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 18 May, 2017 at 8:55||comments (0)|
I had the opportunity to learn more about how our youngsters are learning about sex these days. Unfortunately it appears to be from pornography. Ordinarily I would agree and have a little giggle, I mean who didn't grow up sneaking a peak at Play Boy. This is different. This is dangerous and leading to extremely dysfu...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 2 December, 2016 at 1:00||comments (0)|
Recently I became acutely aware of the unintentional damage a male partner was placing on his female counterpart. He was expressing his admiration for his partner’s body, her skin, her eyes and hair. How he wanted always wanted to touch her. He began to get louder shifting in his seat and his frustration began to show. “Anyone can go to a massage parlour and get a hand job for some relief, but why should I have to when I have this beautiful woman at home! I don’t even want t...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 28 November, 2016 at 6:35||comments (0)|
FIFO workers urged to get help with mental health, relationship pressures
105.7 ABC Darwin By Adam Steer and Jacqueline Breen
Posted Fri at 3:31pm
Long work hours in a harsh, remote climate are pushing people and relationships to breaking point, according to a Darwin-based couples counsellor and sex therapist.
While fly-in fly-out workers on projects around the country face similar pressures, Nina Booysen said she believed...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 28 November, 2016 at 5:45||comments (0)|
|Posted on 21 November, 2016 at 1:35||comments (0)|
Doing the work that I do as a couples counsellor and sex therapist, I am privileged to have an insight into the private lives of couples and individuals. Since moving to the Northern Territory I have noticed that the issues I am seeing are specific for this location due to the nature of the work. FIFO workers, Inpex project workers and high levels of Blue Collar labour and Defence mean that more and more men, (mostly, I acknowledge woman work in these areas too), are exposed to d...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 14 November, 2016 at 6:20||comments (0)|
You Wish Mate!
As a woman I have heard this sentiment repeated throughout my lifetime and as well as from my own thought processes. Working with men who suffer from low self-confidence, performance anxiety and in some cases anger towards woman, it is clear to me the effect woman can have on men. Why do girls think that boys are built to withstand rejection? What is it about gender stereotyping that leads us to believe that we can put a man down for trying to approach us? It’s cal...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 2 November, 2016 at 22:35||comments (0)|
JACKASS! Darwin, Northern Territory was lucky enough to have the degenerates from Jackass visit recently. Thank goodness it was a one off show day and they have left town. The noun for jackass is "stupid person". I couldn't agree more. During the show these mules encouraged two young girls up onto stage and eventually, with the crowd chanting and phones drawn to take opportunistic shots, they bayed for these girls to flash the crowd! I believe one of the girls obliged. Had I been in the crow...Read Full Post »
|Posted on 29 October, 2016 at 8:40||comments (0)|
Reading stories and listening to clients who suffer from pelvic pain of vulvodynia is always heart wrenching. Most seem to have the same experiences of not being believed, by their partners and even their doctors! Most have been sent off for testing for STI’s. While it is best to eliminate this option most woman are very in touch with their bodies and were left untreated and humiliated.
Women have spoken about their sense of h...Read Full Post »